02/04/25 FINDING THE RIGHT ONE
The best way to find the right person, the best person for you, is for you to be the best person, the right person you should be.
This is when you are thinking the most clearly.
This is when you have the strongest resolve.
This is when your decisions are more reasonable than emotional.
Being at your best will make you more attractive to the right person.
Being at your best is not an overnight makeover.
It is the result of a consistent and persistent life of trusting and obeying God.
It is the development of character as well as behavior.
Your choice for a life partner not only determines your future state of mind and well being, it determines the future well being of your mate, your children and other family members.
Live as close to Christ as you can.
Be as Biblical and as faithful as you can be.
Require at least the same spiritual and Biblical standards and qualities of the other person, which you have in your own life.
Require the same doctrinal and church commitments, which you have in your life.
Seek God's leading before and during your relationship.
Take your time. Don't rush and don't be rushed.
Seek and prayerfully consider counsel.
A lot goes into the making of a good marriage, because it is the most important choice you will ever make, next to you salvation. And your choice for marriage will impact your walk with God more than you can imagine.
2 Corinthians 6:14-16
14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
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